Wednesday, March 10, 2010

The Cloth Diapering in Day Care (CDDC) Chronicles, Vol. 1

I love my daughter's day care provider for many reasons. For one, she's basically family. My sister-in-law took her boys there for years, and for a while my youngest nephew and my daughter were at the day care together. It wasn't until recently that S-I-L pulled the boys out of this facility in favor of something closer to home. And even still when I pick my daughter up, the owner asks about the boys. She's also so loving toward my daughter and always gives her a big hug before I take her home. But I most love her because she's been pretty good at accommodating my many parenting requests, sometimes to her chagrin. She doesn't feed her any meat, keeps the sugar at a minimum, and even made some concessions on cloth diapering. That last thing is huge, because even before we started taking our daughter to her, she was pretty adamant that she didn't want to use cloth diapers. She only agreed to use them after we showed her the pocket diapers we use and assured her she wouldn't have to use any pins. She's "old school," so to her cloth diapering meant sticking herself with pins. Nope, we've definitely come a long way since those days!

But even though she relented on the cloth diapering issue, I can tell it still doesn't completely set well with her. At least that's the feeling I get sometimes. We used to bring the baby to day care in a prefold and cover, although we always packed pocket diapers for changes. However, she later asked that we start bringing her to day care wearing the pocket diapers we normally pack. I got the sense that she wasn't comfortable changing our baby out of prefolds, so we agreed to bring her wearing pocket diapers. But yesterday she seemed to reach her threshold of tolerance.

Layla had wet through her diaper and messed up her clothing twice that day, and the owner insisted the diapers weren't working and we would have to do something different. Immediately, I knew what the problem was. It wasn't the effectiveness of the diapers. They've worked since our daughter was a newborn and have held up against some pretty serious messes. And it wasn't that my daughter was wetting more. After all, her bladder is only so big! The problem was the diapers had started to repel liquid.

Repelling is a pretty common problem with pocket diapers. When they work properly, pocket diapers are some of the most effective at holding liquid and preventing leaks. But over time and after numerous wash cycles, residues from laundry detergent (and even hard water) can build up on the fibers and severely inhibit the diaper's ability to absorb liquid. Sure enough, that's what had happened to my daughter's diapers. I tested one of them by running some water over the insert and over the shell and both times the water beaded up and ran off to the side. This meant it was time to strip the diapers.

"Stripping" is simply the process of getting the residue off the diapers. The method I like to use is running one cold cycle using Dawn dishwashing liquid instead of laundry detergent, followed with an extra rinse and a subsequent hot cycle with no detergent. Basically, you're using the dishwashing liquid to break up the residue and then rinsing over and over again to make sure absolutely nothing is left on the diapers. You'll likely have to do this from time to time with your diapers, and it's also important to use only half the amount of recommended detergent in your regular washing to prevent such build-up.

To put her concerns to rest, I told the day care owner I'd strip my daughter's diapers to get them back to normal and we'd proceed from there. Of course, she didn't know what "stripping diapers" meant, but when I picked up the baby from day care today she happily told me, "Whatever you did to those diapers worked. We didn't have any problems!"

What can I say? It's still a process, one of continuing learning and adjustment for both of us. It's my hope that cloth diapering will eventually become more commonplace and navigating these things with day care providers won't be so challenging.

11 comments:

Lulu said...

Good story. Our daycare provider said they would do cloth diapers. They didn't seem apprehensive about it. I am hoping all goes well. I have some happy hienys that might need stripping they seem to always leak. We stopped using them.

Denise said...

Lulu, they just might need stripping. How old are they? It's great that your day care is amenable to using cloth. May I ask what kinds of diapers you send to day care with your baby?

Lulu said...

This is Laini. He hasn't started daycare yet. We have bum genius pockets, happy hienys, gro baby and fuzzi bunz. When we interviewed day cares we brought the diaper with us to show them. The owner looked interested she is pregnant herself. How much dawn do I use to strip 6 diapers? I bought them used from diaperswappers so I am not sure how old they are.

Denise said...

Laini! I didn't even realize it was you! For 6, I don't think you need too much. I just did a whole load consisting of about half our entire stash and I might have used about 1/8 of a cup. Oh, and if your day care provider needs some diapers, you know where to send her ;-)

Lulu said...

I will send her your way. I am trying to convince a co-worker to do cloth. She was going to use a diaper service. I suggested that she register for diapers and let her family pay for it and she can save $$. Will you be doing gift registry soon?

Denise said...

Laini, we currently offer gift registry services through MyGiftList. Go to our page and and look at the top right hand side (in the blue field). www.googoo-gaia.com

Lulu said...
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Lulu said...

Ok I will give her your site.

Yakini said...

Wow, that was so interesting. Good thing you thought about stripping the diapers, and just in time (right before the day care lady reached her threshold). I'm glad things are going well now, and that the diapers are working normally again.

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